The wheels on the school bus go round and round

Lynn wrote 10 years ago:

Choosing a school as an expat parent is really stressful. Thanks for sharing your positive experience in such a cute manner. I really enjoyed this post and I am sure that other parents will feel the same.

MissNeriss wrote 10 years ago:

This is something I don't even want to think about yet! I came from a tiny town where there was only one school, or we had to go to boarding school if our parents wanted (or could afford) something different. I don't know what I'll do if I'm still here. There is an international school here in Almere, but I'm not sure if my husband would support that as he went to the primary school across the green from our house (that's right. We live 200m from his childhood home). Plus, it's the best performing primary school in the city.... Great food for thought, as always Olga

Molly Quell wrote 10 years ago:

I know when I worked at the American School, the parents really struggled sometimes with just these problems. There was even a family sending their son there from Breda, because he would have been held back a year in Dutch schools.

Audra wrote 10 years ago:

Always tough for any parent of any nationality, but what a gift we have here in NL to be able to choose from so much variety! Unless of course living in a small village.

Stephen Greene wrote 10 years ago:

It seems like you chose the best alternative available. Nothing is ever going to be perfect.

Ute Limacher-Riebold wrote 10 years ago:

You're pointing out one of the main "problems" on sending children to an international school: the distance. Children attending those schools mainly don't live in the neighborhood and need to take the bus from a very early stage on, which requires a certain independence that other children don't need to have. - Thanks Olga, this is a great post!

Dorota Wernik wrote 10 years ago:

Coming from, a then communist, Poland to US and starting school there, ment also a completely new experience for me - the yellow school bus. I loved it, meeting my friends at the bus stop every morning and then riding with them to school and the bus driver who gave us candies. It was so much fun. Now when I look at the coach buses with TVs and huge comfy seats, that are passing by our house every morning and evening taking kids to and from the bilingual school just a few kilometers away, I feel sorry for those kids. Some of them have to get up before 6 o'clock and be ready for the bus before 6:30, rain or shine, waiting at the corner to be picked up. Some travel from other cities just to attend this private school. When we considered sending kids to American or European school, we also had to think about the distance - 1.5 trip one-way. 3 hours in trafic a day. It was too far and there was no way we could move closer to the school. So we chose ... homeschooling. This way kids learn all the languages we use at home and don't need to travel to school. :-) Polish mom living in Taiwan

Kornelia wrote 10 years ago:

Wise parents, wise choice. Some families are even prepared to move to a different city just because of the school. Would be great if the best school could be just on the other side of the street, but if the school provides transportation for kids, there is no problem. All the best for little Klara

Jen Burden @WorldMomsBlog wrote 10 years ago:

Olga, For all that you're getting from that school, I understand the distance! How long does it take for the bus to get to the school? I drive my daughter one hour each way every day, just for one week, in the summer to take her to immersion French camp. Wish I could do it for more weeks, but I'm thankful for the past two years that I've been able to do it for one week. I speak some French with her at home, she has a one-on-one French class every week and the immersion French camp gives her a chance to learn French with other kids. There is a year round school there, but it is expensive, and an hour away. My makeshift French learning program for her is not like being in an immersion French school, but we are doing something at least, is how I feel! Jen :)

Bilingual Znaczy Dwujęzyczny wrote 10 years ago:

Before it was time for my first born to start school we researched all the primary schools in the area and actually moved house to be in the catchment area of the best school in town. The school boasts the "outstanding" review from the education authorities, runs a gifted and talented program and offers a family like, friendly environment. It seemed perfect and only a short walk from our new home! The reality was different though. This school was so obsessed by stats and results that the individual student meant nothing there. No idea what happened to the gifted and talented program as my already fully literate daughter was given colouring sheets while others learned their letters and sounds. She used to complain how bored she was there! So after the first year I moved her across town to a school marked barely "good". Now she gets tasks from the year above to stimulate her development and nobody uses big words like "gift" or "talent" here. Here during school assemblies she doesn't have to hear about how outstanding her school is. She knows it anyway. I remember about it every morning when we get into the car and drive in the rush hour traffic past the old school. It's worth it. On top of that there is Polish Saturday school every week with a half an hour drive each way. I'd been reluctant to additionally burden my kids with it for years. I always wanted them to have their weekend free to play and relax. I only decided to sign up for Polish school when my children asked for it. And I'm so glad I did! I still teach them their minority language at home but the school supports it really well and thanks to it they finally met some Polish friends! Also the car journeys can be used for reading, listening to music or stories on CDs and playing various games. So it doesn't have to be a wasted time :-) A great post as usual, Olga!

Lucie C wrote 10 years ago:

I can empathize, we have wondered so many times at what kind of school our son would be the happiest with and that we can afford. At the moment he goes to a school 20 minutes from our home but no school bus dropping him there. We just travel together. Well written!

Ewa Bartnik wrote 10 years ago:

Many years my parents made a similar decision - they decided to send me to an American school 20-30 min away and not to a Dutch one close by. This had a lot of consequences - I am bilingual in English and Polish, but have almost completely forgotten my Dutch. I am a scientist - and it was the biology and chemistry classes which are responsible for this, perhaps not just this, but they were the main factor. But each time you make a decision you have to base it on something, the school you have chosen sounds great and I hope Klara will like it

Vivienne McAlister-Geertz wrote 10 years ago:

A decision which is already difficult for parents who speak the same language and are living in their home country clearly becomes expotentially difficult when you combine a mix of parental languages, country of residence language and a breadth of choice and option. I don't envy the decisions any parents have to make.

Janneke @DrieCulturen wrote 10 years ago:

Hi Olga, yes education is very important! I am interested in hearing about your experiences. We have actually thought of sending our daughter to an international school but a school round the corner is very convenient...... I went to an international school abroad and I may great memories of my school days.

Amanda Van Mulligen wrote 10 years ago:

When there are other languages and cultures involved it's always hard to know if you're making the right choices for your little ones - and when you send them off to school at age 4 they seem so little. Sending them off on a bus must be daunting for you indeed!! But a multilingual, multicultural education is such a gift to give your daughter. Funnily enough we've been looking at that school too......

Magdalena Paulus wrote 10 years ago:

I live in Germany and my daughter goes to the school next year. I´m sad because we can´t choose a school aand here in North Hessen there are none international schools... She has no chance to learn/speak Polish at the school.

Friedel wrote 10 years ago:

Good post, though one thing you said jumped out at me. You described prices in the "international district" of The Hague as very high. I think you're referring to the Statenkwartier. However, the school is not in the Statenkwartier. It's in the Boemenbuurt, which is much more reasonably priced. I live a 2 minute walk from the school and there are all kinds of apartments of 100 square meters, for example, in good condition that are under 200,000 euros. So, maybe you can move after all :) http://www.funda.nl/koop/s-gravenhage/bomenbuurt/100+woonopp/sorteer-prijs-op/

Barbara wrote 10 years ago:

Olga, I would have done exactly the same if I were in your shoes. The European School of the Hague seems to be a great school. And they offer hot meals and bus service, have you seen these services in any other school here? Me not. I have a big dilemma when it comes to chose school, as I do like the convenience of having the school round the corner but I also want a good school I also have three kids and at this moment we could not aford private school fees for the three of them, so unless our finances changes or we try to get a job in an european Institution!