Top 10 Things I Miss The Most From America & Their Perfect Singaporean Substitutions
By: Laura Oliverio BlinkmanThe Blinkman Buzz: Top 10 List Things I Miss the most from America & their perfect Singaporean Substitutions
10. Large stores that sell everything under the sun! The big box stores of America don’t exist in Singapore. There is no Wal-Mart, Target, Home Depot or Best Buy. When we first moved to Singapore, I really missed these stores, until I discovered that instead of shopping at mega-stores, there are thousands of individually owned “mom & pop” stores to choose from, each packed floor to ceiling with everything you could possibly need. Mr Lee is my favorite shop owner, and he usually carries what I am looking for. He knows me by name, always asks about my kids, and he really loves when my husband stops in, because Mr. Lee loves to hear about all about my husbands work at 3M and their products.
9. Large Grocery Stores! Grocery stores do exist in Singapore, but to get the freshest meats and produce, at the best price, you must substitute your favorite grocery market with shopping at the wet markets. You can choose from many family-owned vendor stalls offering vegetables, fruits, beef, chicken, seafood, flowers, and more. These wet markets can be found throughout Singapore, and each one is different from the next. I especially love the Tekka Market in Little India, but I also frequent the Yishun Street 22 wet market. Of course, the Empress Gardens wet market is within walking distance, and is my favorite because Mr. Lee in the DIY Store, Suzanne and her husband Boon who sell their chicken, and Esther at the small grocery store.
8. I miss parking lots with free parking. In Singapore, parking lots with free parking simply don’t exist. We use car parks ... these ramps are in (often under) every building, and you pay to park in them. The car has an electronic device that is “topped up” with cash, and as you exit it automatically deducts from your account. Some car parks are quite expensive with a high hourly rate, like those by Orchard Road or some medical centers, while others are more reasonable, like those by the wet markets.
7. Forks. Well, we don’t really miss them, but we have learned to go with out them. We no longer use forks in my house ... only chopsticks. I decided that we cannot possibly return to the states without learning to use chopsticks, so a few weeks ago I packed away the forks, and substituted them with wooden chopsticks. It was difficult for a few days, and as our hands and fingers cramped up we really missed our forks. And my three teenagers weren't too happy when hungry after long swim practices, it took what seemed forever to eat. But we have since graduated from beginner users with wooden chopsticks to upgraded porcelain ones, and now we don’t miss those pronged utensils at our dinner table.
6. His & Hers. Cars that is. Our luxury of being a two car family is now a “one car plus taxi” family. The public transportation system in Singapore is outstanding, so this is an easy one. There are thousands of taxi’s with apps to call them, an efficient bus system with apps for their schedules, and along with the MRT trains, two cars are not needed for a family to get around. The kids love the independence they have with being able to take a taxi, and the beauty of taking taxis is not having to pay to park!
5. Seasons. Specifically: Winter! Coming from the upper mid-west (shout out to Minnesota/Wisconsin!! ) we have substituted our snowy season for endless tropical weather. We no longer have boots, hats & mittens, heavy coats or ski pants, but instead we have flip flops, sandals, shorts, strappy tee-shirts, and sunglasses. Oh, and we have the very necessary stash of umbrellas. We have umbrellas in the car, in our purses, in briefcases, by the front door ... we miss the snow but love the warm tropical climate!
4. A long drive over the mountains and through the woods, and doing so 60+ miles per hour. Road Trips are a thing of the past for us. This island-country is only 274 square miles, so it doesn’t take long to get from one side of the country to the other. And during those quick trips here in Singapore, it is impossible to drive fast, as there is usually heavy traffic. Even with most families using public transportation, and one car families, this heavily populated country has so many drivers that there is always heavy traffic. Going fast is not an option. Instead we take a quick ferry across the Singapore Straight to Indonesia, or we can hop on a plane to go to Phuket or Bangkok, both in nearby Thailand.
3. Phone calls are substituted with skype & facetime. International calling rates are very high, so expensive that talking even for a few minutes can empty the wallet. But with internet access, skype and facetime are free, and you can “see” the person you are talking to! Before we left the states, we gave my parents an iPad, and with a few lessons, they quickly became facetime experts. Well, truthfully, they constantly ask “Can you see me?” and most of the time instead of seeing their beautiful faces I instead see the ceiling fan.
2. The small town by the river that we left behind is substituted with a very large city. Hudson, Wisconsin is like any small town in the USA ... a beautiful main street with shops owned and operated by our friends and neighbors. A school system where the kids have known each other since kindergarten. Our church family and Pastor Mark. These things, people, and places, and their familiarity, oh we miss desperately. But the substitution for familiarity and comfort of routine of our lives in America is the adventure and excitement of living in Singapore. Singapore is a large, urban city, with a population of over 5 million people, with a fantastic mix of nationalities. My friends here are American, Australian, Malaysian, Dutch, Swiss, Korean, Filipino, Spanish, British, South African, Chinese, Japanese, New Zealanders, and of course, Singaporean. My kids go to a school with students from all over the world. Every day brings new adventures which are anything but routine. Southeast Asia is full of fascinating destinations and all are nearby that need to be explored.
1. Family! Friends! We miss our family back home in the United States of America! Nothing can replace parents, grandparents, siblings, cousins, dear neighbors, swim coaches. We love you all so much! But in the few short months that we have been living in Asia, we have met so many wonderful people, new friends that have quickly become family to us. Because nearly all the expats living here in Singapore are without their family, friendships as expats strengthen quickly, bonds that will last a lifetime. We celebrate each others kids birthdays together, cheer them on at their sporting events, dance recitals. But we have not only met some wonderful expat friends from all over the world, but we also have met some lovely Singaporeans, who have graciously accepted us into their community. My kids swim on a local swim team, and the parents from this team are welcoming and kind, quick to help us navigate our way in our new home country. We miss our family and friends back home, but have surrounded ourselves with new friends who are like family to us.
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Wonderful to read & hear all about your adventures. We miss you & love you dearly!
I enjoy reading your blog and staying abreast of your families adventures while living in Singapore. Always a good read!
Great blog. You nailed it! You sound like a veteran :-)
Great Blog I love hearing about your life in Singapore!! We miss you around here, thanks for keeping All of us in Wisconsin in the loop!!
Love to read your blog's its fun to hear about your adventures while in Singapore.
Laura! Your blog is always amazing and a funny twist to reality we can always rely on. Keep up the great work, it's almost like we are there with you! Mary
It's always so refreshing to read your blog posts! I am amazed by your adventures in Singapore, so please keep on blogging!
I LOVE the Blinkman Buzz! It is very insightful and humorous. It is fun to hear how this family adapts to living in a foreign country.
Laura Great Job...Enjoyed reading about Singapore..Still very Jealous!
Love reading your blog as it feels like we are right there with you and living through your adventures.
This makes me want to try living in Singapore! What a great adventure.
The Blinkmans have taken to the streets of Singapore like real pros!
Laura's blog is wonderful because it describes the things that most Americans would want to know about Singapore, but would never think to ask. Keep on blogging!
Love your submission essay! Sounds like you are getting it figured out! Congratulations on a great blog!
Love love love your blog! Your expat stories are both informative and very funny. Sounds like you are taking full advantage of the experience!
I enjoy hearing all about life in Sing and am extremely jealous of all the wonderful experiences the Blinkman's are having!
Love your blog! All of it hits home :) As an expat myself I can totally relate!
What a funny and touching reflection from an ex-pat and her new adopted country. We should all be so lucky to experience life this way. Continue traveling and seeing the world and giving us these amusing glimpses from time to time. Blinkman Blog is the best!
This has been informative and entertaining. I feel like I have been able to experience a little of Asia with youe family. Best of all it has kept me connected with all your activities.
Hi Laura....I really enjoyed reading this blog. It was so well writen that I could only image what a great experence this is for you and the kids. Miss you ALL lots! xoxox
Hi Laura....I really enjoyed reading this blog. It was so well writen that I could only image what a great experence this is for you and the kids. Miss you ALL lots! xoxox
Awesome blog! It made me want to take a trip to Singapore! Wisconsin has been hit recently with the first few snows (about 6 or 7 inches). I, too, enjoy winter, but the thought of flip flops and shades are almost foreign at this point, and it would be nice to feel tropical temperature!
What a great list!!!! We miss you all!!!! Can't wait to read more about your travels!
If you haven't done so already, get to know Laura and her family. They are an absolute blast! Insightful and easy to share stories with. True friends. Love the top 10!
So glad you guys are here and are our friends :)
I love this essay! I love the way you describe your hometown in America ...it sounds lovely!
Having moved to Singapore recently also I loved reading your blog. It made me realize that I am not alone in the things I miss having moved from the US too. Well written and very entertaining!
Wow, Laura!! You really are a talented writer!! I love that you compared the things you missed with the local 'upgrades'! BTW, why do they call it a 'wet market'?
I love reading your blog and hearing about your adventures. It's fun to see that side of the world through your eyes. Enjoy and keep posting!
I love hearing about what you guys are up to and what you think of being in Singapore. I think its a great way to keep in touch and fun to read!
Hi Laura! What a great list! I love reading about your adventures. This blog makes me want to take my family to Singapore. Thank you for sharing this journey with us!
Lovely post Laura! I love the chopstick rule! you and your family have such an open heart to making this experience all it can be!
Laura I love hearing about your experiences! You shed light on living abroad in a country most don't visit much less reside! Your twist of humor shared with your seemingly surprising experiences always brings a smile and a chuckle. Keep posting friend!!
I love this! It's really a great way to see what you guys are up to since the time difference is so huge! I'm glad you're having a good time!
I've really enjoyed reading about your adventures overseas. My favorite blog so far has got to be the one about the cobras. It made me laugh but horrified me at the same time. I'm so glad you and your family are having a great time of it there. Keep 'em coming!! Oh, and Merry Christmas!
This blog makes me want to visit Singapore! I totally enjoy reading about your adventures! Best of luck to you in the contest!
A great perspective of all the United States has to offer; I'd love to try out NOT having a big box retailer on every corner!! Love your blogs!!
Fun read! Nice to hear about Laura's adventures. Makes me want to travel more myself.
Hope you win this contest! I love your blog. You are doing a great job journaling about our lives here in Singapore!
This blog is a great way to not only keep up with your family, but also to learn about a part of the world I'll never get to visit! Thanks for sharing!!
Laura, Your blog may be very helpful around the world. There are so many people who moved countries, continents and find themselfs lost/ home sick due to changes. It can have a big psychological impact. I love how you express your feelings of what you miss but also found . Please keep going with sharing your feelings/ adventures with all of us . Today you made me think of my home country "Austria " and all the things I miss and appreciate million times more when going home one time a year. Your friend, AZ
Great list but seasons? Not sure that's one that would have been on my list... (I'll take the steady tropical weather) hey when you come back one of those special seasons you miss will bridge the gap to your new Sing traffic norm
As a family member I love this connection! We really feel like we are right there with you..I love it!
Laura your blog is wonderful. It is so well written I was as if you were telling me in person!! Miss that:( . I love your humor.
Thoroughly enjoyed reading this! Being an American living in Austria, I can relate to lots of the points, especially the lack of big box stores, but have come to appreciate the mom and pop stores and markets, just like you in Singapore. We do have forks, though, and winter too. Always better to seek out and appreciate the new rather than complain about what's lacking!
Blinkmanbuzz is such a great blog. Laura has such a great way of bringing us the facts but also adds such fun and humor. Thanks Laura and family for sharing with all of us following.
I love reading about the Blinkman's adventures in Signapore! It makes us feel like we are right there with them. Love the pictures that are included too. Fun to see what another part of the world looks like! :)
I love reading your blog! And I agree, I would miss all of those things, too!
Well written blog, gives good information about Singapore and our family adventures! Love your top 10 list! Good luck! Hope you win!
I'm impressed that you are adjusting and have learned to navigate your host country so well in a few short months. Love your blog, seeing pictures of your sweet family! We all miss you at home, and look forward to seeing you this summer! Good luck in the contest!
I love the Blinkmanbuzz! Laura's magnetic personality comes across in every one of her entries and every post draws me in. Great blog!
I have really enjoyed your postings and what you do to record and share the adventures of the Blinkman family in Singapore! What a great blog. This shows the good side of the internet. Thanks for sharing.
I enjoy reading your blog and following your adventures abroad. I guess when you are in a position to not have what we are accustom to you would miss those things...I know I would. Good luck and Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Very interesting read! Great to see that Trent and you have settled in so nicely in Singapore!
Loved reading your blog,I hope you win the contest!!! Merry Christmas to you and your family and Happy New Year!!!
Fantastic blog that keeps us close to the action with the Blinkman's despite the many thousands of miles that separate us. Gives us a chance to live vicariously through their many adventures in Singapore! Thanks for sharing and keep us the great work!
I love reading the Blinkman Buzz and learning about Singapore!!! It's a weekly MUST!!!
Laura, what amazing experiences you guys must be having virtually everyday! Your essay painted a nice word picture of your life in Singapore!
Very interesting. Learned a few things. I would miss the big box stores as well, but not the snow. Keep the Buzz alive. I look forward to reading more.
Your blog is amazing, and I will never tire of reading your posts!!! Can't wait for more! :)
I enjoy reading about your family's adventures! Thank you for letting us into your lives and keep blogging!
It is refreshing to see such positive comparisons...and they are so true! Best of luck and keep up the great blogging. Happy Holidays!
The #1 thing America misses is YOU, and there is no substitute!
Thanks that was a wonderful excerpt of Singapore and your lives. It's a taste that most of us don't get to see. I love going to different countries and hearing about the ones I haven't been. Almost makes me want to visit.
Terrific blog that captures the positive aspects of living abroad. What a wonderful experience to share with your children and all of us vicariously through the well written blog. Looking forward to following the saga from the frozen mid-west of the U.S.A.
Great to hear how all the Blinkmans are doing, we all knew you would thrive, I would have liked to have seen the kids getting used to chopsticks. Have a wonderful Holiday and Great New Year, All the Best, Scott
Fantastic and thorough blog! I feel like I know Singapore very well now. I would miss watching live sporting events! I wonder if Trent misses watching the Steelers...maybe not this year since they are not doing well! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Take care.
I love reading about you and your families adventures over in Singapore! They are enjoyable and funny and make me want to hop on a plane right now to join you!
What a wonderful experience for all of you and especially the kids. Isn't it great to see that there are terrific people all over the world and friends available wherever we live.
I love to read your posts Laura! You have such a way with words. Plus I get to see the world through your eyes. Miss you and love you girl! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
Sounds to me like a great family adventure. Since it has been below zero here in MN, I am very jealous of your tropical weather. Take care.
Love your blog!So much fun to hear about your adventures and challenges. My favorite is the fact you threw away utensils!
Great comments about life in Singapore-glad to hear you are all doing so well
You are so right! It reminds me of moving from California to Minnesota and how much we missed the mountains, the beach and our friends/family(but not the smog or the traffic).
Love the TOP ten! Glad to see the Blinkman's are adapting so well. Take advantage of the experience! Winter wil be here when you come back to MN.
What a wonderful and welcoming place to have this expat experience! Hats off to you and your family for truly engaging with the Singaporean people and culture.
Laura, thanks for sharing you adventure with the world! It's fun to keep up with you and the family! Best of luck!
Wow! What an exciting adventure for your family! I have really enjoyed hearing all about Singapore & I am also jealous as I sit hear looking at snow and subzero tempatures!
Blinkman's- Thanks for sharing your adventure with all of us! Be safe...enjoy!
Love to read about your adventures in Singapore. Miss your smiling face at Family of Christ & HASA. Merry Christmas to you all!
Fantastic Laura, it makes me miss the Blinkman's and living in APAC. Have a very Merry Christmas....in shorts and t-shirts!
Thanks for including me, Trent and Laura! So glad you are adjusting and enjoying your new environment. Agree that no family can survive w/o the luxury of BB stores, esp Target, Walmart, Home Depot, Best Buy, Menards, the list goes on! NO FORKS??? Would certainly be a challenge for my double-jointed fingers/thumbs to do chopsticks! Again thanks for including me and I will be following Laura's blog!!
So funny about not using forks! Now that's a way to learn how to use chopsticks! You have to teach us how to use them! Love the blog, keep up the great writing!
Merry Christmas!! I am totally jealous of your tropical weather!! Love the blog, good luck!
Living abroad is all about flexibility and embracing the new even if only for a while -- and even when things are different and do not seem to make sense at first. You guys show us great ways to do exactly that. Thank you!
Congratulations on your essay for this contest! I love your blog, I check in often to see what's going on with the Blinkmans. I would totally miss Target! How do you do it?? We miss you! Merry Christmas!! XOXO
Singapore! This post makes me want to come visit you! Sounds like you are adjusting well and learning your way around your host country! Great job!
Love the Blinkman Buzz, and totally enjoyed this contest! Hope you win this contest! You are a Gold Medalist in our eyes! Happy Holidays!
Laura, love your Top 10 list! Keep on blogging!! Happy Holidays from the USA!
Happy Holidays, Blinkmans! Love reading the Blinkman Buzz - thanks for taking us on your journey. Glad you are all enjoying your life abroad!
Blinkmans, Merry Christmas. We miss reading about your three fish in the paper.
What a great incite flu post. I really enjoyed reading it, well done!
Always fun to ready your blog and find out what you are up to. You have a gift for writing, a witty humor, that I totally enjoy. I'm betting your kids love having their lives posted for all to see. Good luck on the contest, keep us posted! Look forward to your next update!! John
Thanks for giving us a glimpse of your fantastic adventures. Making exotic connections and finding local meaning is fascinating.
Great to hear things are going so well in Singapore. Love the list.
I stumbled on your blog a few weeks ago when doing a search on Bali. Loved all your photos, and the way you described the island. I have since read all of your blog posts. You seem to make friends wherever you go, and have become an ambassador of the USA. Congratulations on your blog and contest submission, good luck. I look forward to your next blog post! Bruce
I love it!!! Great Job! What I would miss most aside from family & friends would be the food! I love food (especially now that I have lost 50 Lbs.). But the diversity of food available in the places I have lived in the US is astonishing. Nothing like a great steak! But Mexican, Chinese, Italian (NY Pizza), Fresh seafood, Vegetables and friut from farm satnds in the Summer, Apples in the Fall! Yum!!! All my best wishes to you and your family for a very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy, Safe & Proporous New Year!!! Scott
Click your heals together 3 times and repeat after us...."there's no place like home". The Blinkman Buzz rocks!!!!
Great job Laura!!! Do they have Ice Hockey in Singapore?
Wow! I can't even imagine being that far away from home... You are really brave!!! Life is about making the best / most of it!!! You have to embrace it to make it everything it can be. Sounds like you are doing just that!
Great Blog thanks for sharing. Please have a great xmas and talk with you soon.
We are the neighbors Laura talked about. Who ever happens to be the neighbors now are very lucky people. The Blinkmans are a class act family, and we sure do miss them.
Thank you everyone for taking the time to comment. I really enjoy blogging and keeping a written journal of the Blinkman Adventures while living abroad. While not every day is a \\\"10\\\", most are pretty great! Thanks again, Merry Christmas!! Love you all!!! Laura
I would really miss the big stores like Walmart, Target etc. too. But I think I could get used to the weather (w/o missing MN winters)!
Having spent time in Singapore on a number of occasions, I know exactly what you're talking about, Laura. Enjoy the adventure!
Excellent Job - hope you win the contest!! I love the list of things that you miss. Makes me stop and think about things I miss. We take allot for granite at times!! Bet your dad misses the Steelers!!
Your Blog is terrific and very informative! So glad you have adapted well to your new home. How exciting for you and your family to experience the world together! It would be a dream of ours. Thanks for sharing your adventures!