Under the Abaya
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- Things I've learned from the failure of my marriage 2 days ago It’s over. You’re hurt, and you’ve been dragged through the mud. You’ve probably lost friends, and maybe lost half of your 401k and half of your earthly possessions. You have bags under your eyes, you can’t listen to the radio in public anymore, and you’ve resigned yourself to being...
- Abuse in Saudi Schools 5 days ago School will be back in session here in Saudi in just a few days and my fellow parents and I are knee-deep in uniforms, backpacks, school supplies, and of course, tuition fees. I’m always nervous at the beginning of a school year here. Despite paying exorbitant amounts of money for what is...
- Hijab: What to say and what not to say to a Muslim woman. 1 week ago Some Muslim women wear hijab. Some don’t. Whatever we as Muslim women decide to wear, and for whatever reasons, we have all had to deal with endless questions regarding our decision to cover or not to cover. We realize that not everyone around us will understand our decision to wear hijab or to...
- Men 3 weeks ago On Sunday, July 27th, 2014, while living vicariously thought the story of a friend’s latest love affair, I had a revelation. Here’s how the conversation went: Friend: He parked by a mud puddle last night, so he picked my fat ass up and carried me over it. Me: You’re like Cinderella Friend: I...
- Mother may I? 3 weeks ago Today’s post is a short one. Mostly because my cat is sitting on my shoulder and every time I touch the keyboard she wants to help out. I have a lot of answers for the women who write to me in search of solutions to their relationships with Saudis. I can tell these women if […]
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- Top 5 Reasons why Living in Saudi Arabia is great! Writing Contest March 2013 I'm sure I'm not the first Western expat who's ever gotten the stink eye when I mention that I live in Saudi Arabia. When I meet someone new and tell them where I've chosen to live, the conversation goes a something like this: Them: You live...
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Website Reviews » There are 38 reviews on Under the Abaya
12:18 PM November 25, 2012
I love this blog! I've been reading it since its creation and appreciate that the writer can and will go through the gamut if emotions and share them with her readers. Its like sitting down and talking with an old friend.
12:53 PM November 25, 2012
Undertheabaya writes honestly and her trials and experiences in her mixed married life are very helpful and informative for others living in similar circumstances in Saudi Arabia.
13:19 PM November 25, 2012
This is the ONLY blog I follow on a regular basis. As a fellow American living in Saudi, I can relate to many things this blogger goes through. Thank you for all the information and efforts you put forth to help others better understand this part of the world. Keep the posts coming!
13:52 PM November 25, 2012
I just discovered this blog recently and love it. The writer takes you along for the ride on her personal journey, making you feel like she is a long known friend. She also hits the reality check button for people who think they are alone in their own fight with life.
13:58 PM November 25, 2012
This is a heartfelt & honest journey through the amazing life of a very strong woman...a must read
14:03 PM November 25, 2012
This is the first and only blog I have read because it gives me hope that I can learn to deal with what is given to me no matter the circumstances.
14:56 PM November 25, 2012
I love this blog, and admire the blogger so much..her story and those sacrifices she makes are inspiring... I always look forward to your blogs.
15:16 PM November 25, 2012
Following this blog since the beginning, thank you for sharing with us all your emotions and part of you life.
15:49 PM November 25, 2012
The best blog ever. Very honest, informative and helpful advises from Amercian girl married to a Saudi guy.
21:06 PM November 25, 2012
UnderTheAbaya is an awesome blog. She has a brilliant writing style and a great sense of humor. Plus she takes some risks by addressing some very real issues and situations out there putting them in a very eloquent manner. Overall very real and full of life. Great energy and vibe (: keep it going always.
22:15 PM November 25, 2012
Best blog ever. The only I follow on a regular basis!!
00:09 AM November 26, 2012
Came upon this blog while reading other blogs about Saudi. I think that she is a very strong and brave woman in the way she has handled the breakdown of her relationship. Great blog!
01:33 AM November 26, 2012
The day i found this blog i read it from top to bottom in 1 sitting and i can't get enough of it till now. I check it constantly waiting for the next piece to arrive. I think there isn't a blog like it especially concerning an american muslimah in saudi married to a saudi. Its almost as if she is taking her readers on the emotional roller coaster ride with her..(in a good way) like when you read an amazing book your just cannot put down. But at the end of the day this is her real life and i respect her for having the courage to tell all and make no apologies about it.
02:33 AM November 26, 2012
I stumbled across this blog in my internet travels and was hooked from the first read. Not only does she address the things women go through, she addresses the unique challenges of being an American in a foreign culture, embracing a lifestyle not many are familiar with. She is honest, heartfelt, humorous , strong and enormously talented
03:19 AM November 26, 2012
This is not just a blog about the her personal life, this blog give the reader what it is like to be an outsider in a foreign country. Great blog!!
03:41 AM November 26, 2012
Being an American married to a Saudi, I enjoy reading Under the Abaya's point of view. The writing style is refreshing and light when referring to very serious life events.
04:55 AM November 26, 2012
I have recently discovered this blog and I am hooked. It is a heartfelt journey that I can easily relate to as it talks about dreams, heartaches, triumphs and everything in-between. Humorous, reflective and poignant. Thank you for sharing your journey. All the best and keep strong!
06:14 AM November 26, 2012
I have been through many blogs however this Blog touched me deeply cause of the reality that's in it,this Blog helps people discuss,help others emotionally on various issues.The Blogger emphasis on every thing that she comes across in her life which teaches us lessons based on her experience & warns us before taking certain steps/dissension in life.I bet till now she has touched each and every point about the country & her personal encounter..the way she puts it here is just beautiful..I know for sure this women got a lot of Guts to share her life over here,and i salute her for doing so.I wish i could marry a girl with that talent,however she should censor me out LOL
06:44 AM November 26, 2012
An AMAZING blog by an AMAZING lady! She has so much life wisdom to share with the world.. and I love reading every little bit of it...
12:26 PM November 26, 2012
Love American Girls blog!!
14:43 PM November 26, 2012
"Under the Abaya" is unique in the way that she can show you her soul through her friendly, simple, and warm language. I predict (God willing!) this exceptional woman will be writing books in the future and by that time she will have an army of followers hungry for her writings :) I wish she were physically close to me, so that we can be best friends and do fun things every day of two.
21:47 PM November 26, 2012
Simply put American Girl is an amazing writer. Her honesty is refreshing and inspiring for all of us no matter what circumstances we are living under. All you have to do is read just one post and you'll see exaclty why she was nominated and why she should win.
07:00 AM November 27, 2012
I really enjoy reading your blog, it's very motivating!
08:58 AM November 27, 2012
She has wonderful writing skills & I am really surprised that she is not a professional writer. The stuff she writes is filled with honesty, emotions, humor sometimes & a true life experience. I must say that she is a highly tactful writer who describes the situation & emotions that you at time feel that you are an invisible person who is just sitting next to her. One thing what i have found in her blog is the respect which she gives to the local culture which probably most of us expats don't give. That's probably because she herself is a genuinely good person.
17:17 PM November 27, 2012
American Girl has an amazing writing style, I was hooked from the first post . I have laughed and cried through her journey. American Girl rocks!
18:04 PM November 27, 2012
Under the abaya has one the most amazing blogs! Since I came across her website, I read through all of her entries and she has such a way with words: filled with raw emotion with heartfelt touching experiences. She writes in a way like I am listening to my best friend. She's stronger and braver than she gives herself credit for. I look forward and savour each and each blog entry. I wish to see all her dreams come true in the near future. She is in my thoughts! She deserves the best blog of the year award!
20:18 PM November 27, 2012
A very insightful blog for everyone.
21:58 PM November 27, 2012
Very great blog and personal perspective of a woman's life in Saudi Arabia and beyond!
02:47 AM November 28, 2012
A very brave woman - I enjoy reading her blog :)
14:09 PM November 29, 2012
Amazing, bright and courageous woman with exceptionally fresh and sometimes comical views on life and makin the best of a tough situation. I have read her every post and can't wait to see what she has to say next!
10:20 AM December 02, 2012
love her style of writing..!all the elements are there..!
12:33 PM December 02, 2012
American Girl's perspective makes even the worst situation seem managable.
12:54 PM December 02, 2012
I love reading her blog. It gives those of us that are back in the USA a look at her life in Saudi and an understanding if the challenges she faces as an American woman there. Love it!
12:34 PM December 03, 2012
Can't wait for the book!
18:51 PM December 03, 2012
Been following it from the start .. its Great!!
20:17 PM December 03, 2012
Great blog and great lady.
14:56 PM December 04, 2012
This is a great blog, She writes from her heart. I will always be in her corner to cheer her on.
20:04 PM December 06, 2012
Been following your blog some time and enjoy reading your comments love your honesty may all your wishes come true hope you win good luck love you